"Steve's an idiot," she answers, even though that isn't at all fair. "Or I'm an idiot. We're both idiots."

One thing she does know, she'd been right to call his question unfair and she's right to be hurt by it. That part of the conversation, yes, Steve was very much the idiot. But maybe she's been stupid, too, thinking a guy like him, someone who very much grew up in a conventional home, even if it wasn't always happy, wouldn't want a proper family.